We are both 35 and have been married 2 yrs. We are a 1 income family and want so much more for our fmaily. I have 4 kids, he has none. And they are all teens getting ready to go off to college. We want to quit scraping by and know that the money will be there when we need it. Both of us come from poor families, and we were both brought up to believe that if you didnt work for the money you would never make it. We are both tired of making someone else rich. We want to know what it feels like.